Sunday, February 24, 2008

Day Seven

Well folks, Today is day 7 of the 30 day sex challange and I must say I am on the other end of the test. I don't get to have sex for 30 Days, and Service tonight was Great ! It is more than sex it is about emotion needs and intimacy Here is what pastor Paul talked about tonight..... Numbers 1-5 must be done befor you get to number 6. Powerful Eh !!!!!

Intimancy.

1. the state of being intimate.

2. a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group.

3. a close association with or detailed knowledge or deep understanding of a place, subject, period of history, etc.: an intimacy with Japan.

4. an act or expression serving as a token of familiarity, affection, or the like: to allow the intimacy of using first names.

5. an amorously familiar act; liberty.

6. sexual intercourse.

7. the quality of being comfortable, warm, or familiar: the intimacy of the room.

8. privacy, esp. as suitable to the telling of a secret: in the intimacy of his studio

In my Emotional Needs Questionnaire my top two Emotional Needs.... Were #1 Affection and # 2 were Sexual Fulfillment Jenny-Sue's top two were Honesty and openness, and affection. Well tonight we got home and BOOM ! I had a meal with fresh herbs from our garden, everything fresh after a long day at the hyde park art fest,Big top flea market,out with the girls, and then church, No rest from 7am and to have someone cook you a meal better than any restaurant in town you BETTER meet that young lady's Needs !!!! BRAVO to you Jenny-Sue Tonight is yours !!!! It's funny how it takes a questionnaire to make you want and love someone more than ever and happy you can't break the rules because you are showing her what means the most to HER.

2 comments:

Tina said...

I'm amazed by so much in that blog. Yet kept looking at the photo. Grown-up food... the glass table. The wine. The clean house. The clean table. OIE - wanna borrow some teenagers for a few weeks?
Seriously though - your relationship sounds amazing and sounds like you are really growing and learning so much. Keep up the good work!

Stephen A.Bivens said...

I would love to meet them !!!!! Thanks.